1. Fixation
It is not generally a good idea to fixate on anything-- yourself, another person, an issue, etc.
The distinction to be made is fixation versus focus. When you fixate, you cannot make progress, you cannot move a situation forward, you cannot improve. When you focus, you can do all those things and more.
falling in love can involve a fixation-- on an idea of eternal love, other fantasies...
or it can be a chance to focus and to grow/change
2. everyone is is student and everyone is a teacher
some just have more to learn, some have more to teach, but all of us are both.
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